Me and jai we are together from last 14 years (including our college times) and married since last 5 years. We both were really very happy within our small world where we had everything, a beautiful house, car, really nice jobs, strong career paths, pets, vacations, chilled out weekends and our mutual love for freedom.
Its not like the thought of having our own child never came up in first 4 years of marriage, but we always agreed that we are still not ready for this BIG responsibility. Also our family members never pressurized us to dive into parenthood, that was may be because of Jais job profile as he was a field engineer so he worked on rotations one month he is on holiday and one month he’s working offshore away from home.
All my experienced friends in this field always advised me to target my first pregnancy before I turn 30, which makes so much sense now. I was 28, my biological clock was ticking, together we decided to plan a complete medical checkup and seek professional advice. After which we realized there is no point in stretching this too long either do it now or never.
Exactly at the same time a much awaited job offer for me came into picture. We decided to move to Aberdeen from Mumbai. Jai also got a very attractive job offer at the same place and the best part was he got into an office job and out of offshore job profile. We both were really happy and were very excited for this new journey together. So our family planning obviously got postponed but we promised ourselves that as soon as we get settled there, we will take things seriously.
Six months from there..here I am expecting a baby in nine months from now :D
Its not like the thought of having our own child never came up in first 4 years of marriage, but we always agreed that we are still not ready for this BIG responsibility. Also our family members never pressurized us to dive into parenthood, that was may be because of Jais job profile as he was a field engineer so he worked on rotations one month he is on holiday and one month he’s working offshore away from home.
All my experienced friends in this field always advised me to target my first pregnancy before I turn 30, which makes so much sense now. I was 28, my biological clock was ticking, together we decided to plan a complete medical checkup and seek professional advice. After which we realized there is no point in stretching this too long either do it now or never.
Exactly at the same time a much awaited job offer for me came into picture. We decided to move to Aberdeen from Mumbai. Jai also got a very attractive job offer at the same place and the best part was he got into an office job and out of offshore job profile. We both were really happy and were very excited for this new journey together. So our family planning obviously got postponed but we promised ourselves that as soon as we get settled there, we will take things seriously.
Six months from there..here I am expecting a baby in nine months from now :D
Two Pink Lines!! We are "Pregnant".....Yeiiiiiiiiii!!!
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